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We talk about boundaries like they’re rules meant to keep people out. Like they’re something we set up to control others, to regulate behavior, to protect ourselves from getting hurt. But boundaries aren’t about other people.
They’re about you.
They’re about what you allow. What you protect. What ...
We all wear masks. Not the obvious kind, but the ones we craft so carefully that even we start to believe they’re real. The put-together version of ourselves. The successful, competent, always-in-control version. The version that shows up polished, unshaken, and untouchable.
It feels safer this way...
Control feels like security. It feels like order. It feels like the thing that will keep us safe. So we grip tighter on our careers, our relationships, our futures, believing that if we just manage everything well enough, nothing can go wrong.
We prepare for every outcome, think through every scena...
Ever met a millionaire who still grinds like they’re broke? The entrepreneur who has built a thriving business but still wakes up in a quiet panic, checking their numbers before even getting out of bed? The top performer who has everything they once dreamed of, yet feels like one misstep could send ...
What if the discomfort you’re feeling isn’t a sign you’re failing, but proof that you’re evolving?
Transformation is messy, awkward, and even painful. But in that discomfort lies the undeniable evidence that you’re breaking free from the old and stepping into the new.
Reinventing yourself isn’t a ...
Think about the version of yourself you’re striving to become. Maybe it’s someone with the perfect career, effortless confidence, impeccable habits, and a life that looks flawless from the outside.
You’ve likely crafted this vision over years, shaped by influences like childhood expectations, socie...
When Success Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
Success is often celebrated as the ultimate goal. Yet, for many high achievers, it comes with an unexpected emotional burden: guilt.
You’ve worked hard, achieved your goals, and earned the recognition you deserve. But instead of feeling pride, there’s a voice ...
Is Perfectionism Holding You Back?
On the surface, striving for perfection seems admirable. You want to do your best, avoid mistakes, and aim for excellence. But beneath this drive often lies a deeper struggle—one that keeps you stuck, anxious, and trapped in a cycle of indecision.
Perfectionism ...
Do You Feel Like You’re Holding Yourself Back?
There’s a subtle, often invisible force that keeps many of us from living the lives we desire. It’s not external circumstances or lack of resources, it’s our own subconscious beliefs.
These beliefs, formed long ago to protect us, can now act as an in...